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Parenting Solutions for Your Family ...
SITUATION: I thought things would be better after the divorce, since we would no longer be fighting. But now there seem to be the same number of fights, only now it is with one of my children.
SOLUTION: Any time there is a divorce, one of the children has a “spell” cast on him/her. That child feels compelled to act just like the absent parent. Apparently this creates some sense of security to keep that “old relationship” you had with your former spouse alive. Check once, doesn’t it feel like your child is acting just like the absent parent? The bad news is that the child will get stuck emotionally with this “spell” and over-focus on keeping this old relationship alive. The good news is that you can break this “spell” by changing your half of the relationship. Now that you know what is going on, you do not have to react like you did to your former spouse. You can shift by “Thinking WE” and take charge of .the parenting responsibility in a new way. Then you can say, “It is not good for US that you become disrespectful. Let’s talk about how WE are going to handle this situation.”
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Hi, my name is Jason and I am a single father of a wonderful little girl, Madalyn. She is two and half, as of June 20, 2007, and is the best thing to happen to me. I am excited, filled with joy, nervous, and scared all at the same time. It is my hope that through this blog I can watch myself grow while getting valuable feedback from visitors...Thanks for visiting and posting your much needed comments.
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